Paméla currently serves as the Northern California Domestic Violence Coordinator of the Zeta Phi Beta, Sorority, Inc. Delta Delta Zeta Chapter, which she is a proud member and using the designated platform to promote, educate, resource, and to bring resolve to those burdened by the lasting effects that domestic violence leaves on its survivors.


Her transparency is well appreciated by various audiences. As a survivor, Paméla believes that it is her responsibility to champion advocacy. Through the power of her own life’s story, she has become a catalyst for both local and global communities. She shares some of her story in the newly released anthology, “My Walk Past Hell.”

Standing authentically in her purpose, Paméla has joined forces with three of her friends and formed the Black Women Revolt Against Domestic Violence Resource Center. This group is comprised of women determined to provide the various resources, tools and aid that are necessary to stand against domestic violence.

Paméla is also the author of “A GIRL’S JOURNEY: There’s No Crying in Baseball,” a book written to teach children and families about fortitude, integrity, gender roles and the concept of being a team player. In 2021, she released another personal piece of work, “I’ll Fly Away: 31 Day Devotional for Caretakers,” to offer time, space and healing for other caretakers such as herself who are caring for a parent, spouse, child, family member or friend.  "Self-Care Practices That Benefit Mind, Body and Soul" was released later that year as a follow-up to encourage individuals to create a self-care routine that makes them the star of their life.

During the summer of 2022, Paméla celebrated the release of two new book additions to her portfolio, "I Survived the Storm " and "Women Who Rock," both collaborations with amazing women sharing their stories of success, challenges, heartaches and triumph and in August 2022, she received a Doctor of Philosophy with an emphasis on Leadership honorary degree from Provident University  


When Paméla is not out advocating for others, she resides in the beautiful San Francisco Bay area. She is a beloved daughter and the mother of three children, one bonus child and dog Zorro.
Follow Paméla on Facebook and Instagram (@mspamelatate) for inspiration for survivors and caretakers as well as upcoming speaking engagements.